I keep mentioning Joriki in these posts because most people don't realize that there is a strength of mind as potent as physical strength, without which truly clear thinking is impossible. This strength is what the Tibetans call the "double edged sword of Manjushri" that on the one hand protects you against falling prey to severely disciplined and pervasive mentalities that you may encounter, but on a very practical level, helps you to act spontaneously and decisively in a way that moves you towards your goals.
As kids in New York, we used 'got your mind' as an expression to indicate that someone had been befuddeled, confused, stymied, exploited or otherwise had their self-interest supplanted. Usually it held a connotation that one had been made to believe something untrue for the entertainment of others. This is actually a cruel thing to do: the neuron associations that are built up around trust issues are important in both relationships and self development.
One can defend themselves against this. It just takes a bit of know how, a little revolutionary spirit and a burning desire for freedom and self-determination, good old American values as I learned them (oops, I'm dating myself).
Have you ever seen the 'Road Runner'? It's a cartoon about a mad scientist coyote who, in every story, unsuccessfuly tries to catch the road runner. The stories usually end with the coyote being burnt up, bruised, buried, smashed, exploded, or run over, usually holding a piece of his latest
Rube Goldberg contraption (similar to what the Japanese call a
Chindogu) in his hand.
The difference between a Rube Goldberg contraption and a Chindogu is that the first a ridiculously complex device that performs simple tasks, while the second is useful, even efficient, but its use could cause other problems, like extreme embarassment - see the Chindogu below.

To some purists, I would imagine that the umbrella hat may not qualify, because it actually works, but I cannot imagine a samurai, or even an queue of salarymen out for a karaoke evening wearing them.
Anyhow, the Road Runner teaches children the futility of effort, and the result of trying to go beyond one's "place". For this very reason, the US 'Founding Fathers' (not founding parents, because the women had no civil rights) tried their hardest to make the development of a 'ruling class' impossible. They tried to create a nation in which people grew in status and wealth by their efforts and determination, not by their parentage. It was an especially difficult task for them, because they were all white male landowners, and much of that land was made profitable and fruitful by bondservants and slaves.
Recently, a couple of generations of kids have been raised by machines and fed a diet of road runner, casper the ghost (spending eternity is search of a friend), and other animated humanoids that teach children how funny losers are. With this learning under their belt, if they don't get enough positive attention, or proper nutrition, they unconsciously decide to become losers not only in the hopes of being liked, but because they believe they have found their "place" in a world divided between losers and loser-exploiters. If they do get enough attention and are very well fed, and accept the "strong father" model as the "winners'" way, they look for losers to be of service to them in school, at work and at home. If there aren't any losers in the immediate vicinity, they will either go find some elsewhere or create some out of the unsuspecting and weaker of their fellows so that they can enjoy the fruits of their superiority, as they so deserve (according to their way of thought).
If you are around a lot of these "loser exploiter" framed people and you even suspect a hint of discrepancy between what you're told and what's really happening, you may be developing a trying problem called in the past by names like "self-esteem", "integrity" or heavens forbid, "independence". Nevertheless, whether one is a loser or a loser-exploiter, if you follow the model that teaches that people fall into one of these two categories, the tyrant/hierarchy model 'got your mind'.
If you are a follower of the tyrant/hierarchy model of human nature, and close to a nodal personality (like the class bully or a politician, guru, or some other hierarchialist), then ideas like integrity and independence may be as much of a Chindogu for you as using a pogo stick to navigate office corridors in a law firm. More on this later, as we explore various aspects of Ki.
Roy
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